Is it me or is Christian Carter of Catch Him and Keep Him the devil Have you ever gotten sucked into something that you were also ashamed to read It happened to me yesterday. I was listlessly checking my email when I noticed a text ad that I must have seen more than 1. Rori Raye Modern Siren Pdf' title='Rori Raye Modern Siren Pdf' />How to catch and keep a man. Those ads are as oddly ubiquitous as the text link ads for Acai Berry Wonder Diets, but I always assumed that ads with links like Why Men Withdraw and What to Do About It were for women who are more pathetic and malleable than me. Yesterday I joined the masses. And let me tell you. I became sickly fascinated. And angry. I was vulnerable to that horrible ad because I recently heard something along the lines of Im just looking for something casual. Somehow I find that impossible not to take personally. I clicked on the linkThe Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes Women Makeand found myself swimming through simple, one sentence direct mail style paragraphs, like Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. Rori Raye Modern Siren Pdf' title='Rori Raye Modern Siren Pdf' />And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happenOf course, the worst part wasnt that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldnt have done it in the first place but you did it anyway. Ummm, who hasnt Christian Carter offers to tell women how to avoid the ten fatal mistakes most women make with men, or how to engage and attract a man right after you meet in person,  if you are so good as to enter your credit card number to receive his e book. The worst mistake a woman can make is not seeking help. Because men are so hard to understand, and Christian Carter has spent years reading every relationship book ever published, and he has thought deeply about the psychology of men and women when they are dating. And he can help So sign up and give him your credit card for his e book at a price of 2. The sickest thing is that for a moment I even considered typing my credit card address, until I awoke from the hallucination and realized it would be hell to get him to stop charging me money. His real name is David De. Angelo, and once I had the wherewithal to do a search binge on him, I found numerous consumer complaints from women who claimed that he wouldnt stop charging them after they asked to unsubscribe. I could see this was a psychological master who knew how to manipulate an audience. Fidget Spinner is a toy. Small child is used for entertainment purpose. We are Excited to Give You FREE Access to the Entire Attract Your Soulmate Now Series for Two Full Days From Friday, November 4th at 9am Pacific Time. The stock trade in any self help e book purchase is to tap into the readers insecurities and promise you have the long sought after answer. In this case, its about tapping into womans insecurities and confusion over male behavior, with the promise of understanding of learning whats going on behind the scenes of a mans mind. WHEN A MAN SAYSI dont want a serious relationship right now. WHAT HE REALLY MEANS ISI ONLY WANT A RELATIONSHIP with a woman whoalready has her act together, is attractive,healthy, independent, easy going, confident, andwho is emotionally in control of herself and herown life. MORE WORK and LESS FUN than I can have on myown. Does this make senseAlternative viewpoints if this analysis of Christian Carters dating advice resonated with you, sign up here. Ill be sharing alternative viewpoints about dating. Welcome to the Art of Love Series Virtual Event Room SCROLL DOWN TO REVIEW THE SCHEDULE OF SEMINARS The Art of Love Series kicks off on Tuesday, June 20th and. Again, hes NOT imagining a picture of anoverly emotional, predictable, needy woman who istrying to get him to connect with her and sharingher feelings because shes so worried about thingsworking out. In my google searching, I found a post by this woman, who pretty much summarized his point of view. Shes been reading him for longer than me, so Ill let her do the heavy lifting of distilling his advice One of my friends suggested I register at his website. Since then, Ive been getting extremely annoying emails about how to CATCH and KEEP a man, like hes a freakin trout or something. Pearls of wisdom have included 1. Dont sleep with a guy too soon time frame not includedso just guess2. Dont be predictable, or his attraction will magically end must I be in a different country each time he calls3. Dont discuss any emotional issues at all, ever, God forbid, or its all over, period. Dont assume that just because youve been dating for months youre in a relationship WTF5. Try to appear at all times to be aselective bunemotional chard to get da robot woman. In general, subvert any and all natural inclinations you may have as a woman, and pretend like nothing means really anything at all to you, or else any guy, anywhere, will run like the wind from you, because guys cant stand a woman that harbors an actual emotion that might pertain to said guy. All the mystery boils down to you, women. The problem is you. You are too emotional. The way to create a great emotional connection with a man is to never burden him with your emotions. Its hard to imagine exactly what this great emotional connection consists of, except the idea that the man feels great when hes with you, better than when he is single, and you as the woman are not constantly analyzing the relationship. The whole thing consumed me for about 9. Ill admit that my feelings were not altogether rational at the time, but they were a product of being brainwashed by his mind sucking prose 1 The feeling that men and women are so irreconcilably different that we can never truly be ourselves with each other anything that promotes this idea is just depressing. It makes me wonder if pre industrial societies had it right when men and women didnt expect their mates to be their best friends, and instead found companionship with same sex friends. The way that women get blamed simply for being women and having some emotional needs toguess whatbe themselves. According to Carter, men want to be with a cool girl and a cool girl is basically someone who is unpredictable, fun, emotionally balanced, has no insecurities, easygoing, and independent. Ummm, is this true Could it be This marketing campaign is obviously aimed at a very mainstream, middle American audience. Are there really that many men who prefer not to deal with emotions at all At the same time, I hate sitting around with a group of women complaining that All men are dogs, etc. I know men are more complicated than that and that there are men who are out there who really want to connect with other men as friends and women as partners or men if they are gay. Mts Recovery Tool Crack. Its just that reading this stereotypical garbage, combined with the shitty and mystifying ways that some men act, make me and other women feel confused and despairing. The preying on womens insecurities then taking their credit card numbers for recurring charges. That just sucks. Period. Its a very profitable enterprise to continually charge people 1. Why am I writing about this and even giving this bozo any attention Because people like him have influence. He seems more powerful than the authors of the Rules, because hes a man, and supposedly offers an inside view. I am fascinated by how mystified we men and women seem to be with each other. So what is the antidotear the antidate to the dating breakdown in communicationI discussed this with one female roommate so far, who was equally horrified and livid when she read his stuff, and one male friend, who said, talk to your male friends. Theyre much more similar in mindset to the men you are trying to date.